The Man Who Would be Boy
This is a poem I’ve been working on. This is also a working title.
The man who would be boy does all he can To turn the hands of time to yesterday; He cannot change unless he’s been a man. Frustrated he whom rites denied can plan For childhood’s end, which lingers like a plague; The man who would be boy does all he can. And though he tries to simulate that span When backs are bent and life’s unfairness weigh, He cannot change unless he’s been a man. Well I was told by members of my clan, That things would change when black had turned to gray, The man who would be boy does all he can. As roads cut off before journeys began Lead to retreat and long-lost modes of play, He cannot change unless he’s been a man. Like those who next in line forever ran, Whose greatness face intractable delay, The man who would be boy does all he can, He cannot change unless he’s been a man.
- Alexander
There used to be rites that were practiced when a boy became a man.
For Natives, it was counting coup, or stealing a horse.
For Europeans it was venturing off to another country.
We no longer have rites of passage.